He’s Just Not That Into You

Ladies,listen to Greg Behrendt.It may not be what you want to hear or would like to hear but it will keep you from making big mistakes and persisting with them.

 

“Here’s something else to think about: calling when you say you’re going to is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust. If he can’t lay this one stupid brick down, you ain’t never gonna have a house baby, and it’s cold outside.”

 

“Don’t spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you”

 

“Don’t be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You are deeply missable. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.”

 

“Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.”

 

“But what I can do is paint you a picture of what you’ll never see when you’re with a guy who’s really into you: You’ll never see you staring maniacally at your phone, willing it to ring. You’ll never see you ruining an evening with friends because you’re calling for your messages every fifteen seconds. You’ll never see you hating yourself for calling him when you know you shouldn’t have. What you will see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You’ll be too busy being adored.”

 

“I’m about to make a wild, extreme, and severe relationship rule: THE WORD “BUSY” IS A LOAD OF CRAP AND IS MOST OFTEN USED BY ASSHOLES. The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want.”

 

“When it comes to men, deal with them as they are, not how you’d like them to be.”

 

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”

 

 

“You already have one asshole, you don’t need another one”

 

“If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will.”

 

“Wasting time with the wrong person is just time wasted.”