Use Envy To Get You Going!
August 1, 2012 3 Comments
In Buddhism, the term irshya is commonly translated as either envy or jealousy. Irshya is defined as a state of mind in which one is highly agitated to obtain wealth and honor for oneself, but unable to bear the excellence of others.The term mudita (sympathetic joy) is defined as taking joy in the good fortune of others. This virtue is considered the antidote to envy.
Moreover, psychologists (van den Ven et al., 2009) have recently suggested that there may be two types of envy: malicious envy and benign envy - benign envy being proposed as a type of positive motivational force.Do read the article here http://www.spring.org.uk/2011/05/why-envy-motivates-us.php and note the following:
We tend to feel malicious envy towards another person if we think their success is undeserved. This is the type that makes us want to strike out at the other person and bring them down a peg or two. However when another's success feels deserved to us, we tend to feel a benign envy: one that isn't destructive but instead motivates.
...people who felt they had little control over their ability to improve resorted to admiration. On the other hand, those who thought they could improve experienced benign envy and were motivated to work harder. It's the feeling of control that motivates.
Benign envy encouraged people to perform better on measures of intelligence and creativity, when compared with both admiration and malicious envy.
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Well observed, the “deserved” success of another should be a spur to succeed rather than to bring them down.
Yes and I don’t think we shouldn’t spend much time debating whether a person’s success is deserved or not.
Something worked for another person.It might or might not work for us.It might be a route we choose to follow or not.We just decide whether we wish to follow suit or not and move on.
Criticism is corrosive even for the person doing the criticizing.